Whipping is one of the most erotic encounters for S/M partners. Punishment that is performed by whipping can be made in many ways-it could be a teasing foreplay or a whole well-thought scene. However, whipping is not only the process of whipping, but also the whole ritual that involves communication with your partner. It's not that you take out the whip and place it at your sub's bottom. The words you say, the manner you whip and the outfit may all create the necessary atmosphere for sexual arousal.
Of course, a thought-out scene with well the participants dressed and prepared is more appealing than spanking itself. A sub dress so that to expose his bottom to the dom. In order to fix the sub, you may handcuff him or her and tie up the feet.
You may begin the scene with punishing your sub verbally, telling him about his crimes and faults. You can emphasize how you are going to punish him. You can torture your sub making him wait for the whipping. If he also knows the whipping will be hard the fearful anticipation can increase the pleasure for two. You may then show your slave a whip, taking time for him to imagine the process. Gliding the tails of the whip along sub's back and teasing him between the legs is one of the best ways to turn him on.
Whipping process can be very methodical-it's usually the best when made in rhythm. You can count load the number of lashes telling him about his faults.
After scene is very important too. You can hug, calm down and kiss him protectively, making him know you are his master and no one loves and cares about him more than you do.
