It's not so easy to answer this question. Try to ask it twenty submissives and most likely you will get twenty completely different answers. Everyone has her or his own sub-space. There are some similarities in this state's description, but still they are too much different. I would like to present to your attention a few answers from submissives I was speaking to. I hope these descriptions will through light on this phenomenon and will help those who dream of it."When I am in sub-space all my feelings are escalated. I am not quite "here", I am somewhere "there". When I am in sub-space, do not ask me to take rational decisions, I can't. I want to be where I am, I want to remain in this world created by my Master. The state of sub-space does not always come to me while sex play. Sometimes I deepen in it when hearing the voice of my Master or seeing his gesture…To see him when being in sub-space is like looking through drops of water - precise image in the center and blurred image around it.
"Being in sub-space I feel like electrified, like every inch of my body shines. I feel like falling from heaven. Everything around me is foggy. I do not quite understand who I am. I feel no fear, I am only excited by my falling. When in the end I "land", I go on knowing that this was not frightening. I know my Master is here, and that he will catch me. I feel like I am an entire whole with my Master."
"Sub-space for me is like another world. This is so deep commitment which makes me completely concentrated on my Master: on his desires, needs, caprices and on how I should fulfill them. This is being aware of your complete belonging to this person. You feel you exist only for him. There are no words to describe this state properly - just try describe red color to a blind. You can find some words, but one who has never experienced what you have will never understand what you are speaking about."
"For me this is a warm and soft feeling. I feel helpless and very woman-like. I feel a very strong desire. I can hardly open my eyes, my voice becomes very quiet, my gestures become weak. I love and remember every second of being in sub-space. I want to remember every wonderful moment of my being in sub-space, and recollect all these moments again and again."
I hope these descriptions will help you get to understand better what sub-space is. I thank everyone who agreed to answer my questions.
