If we talk about the special beauty of BDSM scenery, fetishism would certainly play a major part for me. Taking aside the philosophical part of the BDSM culture ( ), fetishism would be an outward aesthetic, a special form of art expression. Some would say they are not somehow connected with fetishism or they never had this type of interest, but I wouldn't believe in it. I guess most people are fetishists in one or another way but are not aware of it. A husband who will find his wife dressed in leather body wear and black stockings is unlikely to tell her: "You are dirty fetishist!" Otherwise, I rather expect the hottest night he could hardly imagine. Besides, the definition of norm has always been quite vague. There are a lot of forms of fetishism that are hardly realized as the fetishism itself. For example, how many people find lover's hair color so attractive as to bring them to the highest state of arousal before the intercourse itself? I think that most would just have to admit they have that "something"- be it her knee, or a transparent pantie that stirs passion in their blood. Though I can admit a true fetishism as a special interest to an object or part of the body most often stays aside from the person itself, still all the same connected with the image of the particular person.
As for one of my fetishes, I find body dressed in leather an undeniable number one. The Domme's leather outfit is such a delight to touch, to smell and look. When you walk your fingers through the smoothness and special softness of this incredible material and suck in a distinctive crispy and rich smell of it all your senses seem to revive and urge for submission. I just can't resist but lick it in order to feel leather as a part of me. I feel the strong connection as though some part of my beloved one always stays with me. This obscure presence of him keeps the feelings sharpened.
And what about your fetish?
