Deciding on collaring is a serious decision one should think over and negotiate with his partner about taking the responsibility. Collar is an outward image that has its deep meaning- a commitment with responsibilities, total trust and respect. A dom who collars sub makes him not simply his slave but also takes him under control. In its turn a sub entrusts himself completely to a dom becoming obedient to follow every order of his master.
You may need to proceed from your collar of consideration status to a slave collar – a highest indication of your commitment to D/S lifestyle and your only owner. Once resolute about your relationship status and given master‛s permission, partners may arrange a collaring ceremony.
Collar rules
- Collar is given and taken off by Master. He has a right to choose how to express his ownership in a unique way while choosing a style of the collar sub will be wearing during the ceremony and in his presence.
- Wearing collar in public should be allowed by Master. But wearing collar when master is around is an obligation-a sub shows his love, trust and obedience. Even when your Master is not near, collar that is worn by sub reminds him of his commitment and he can occasionally touch it as a sign of his attachment.
- Once collared sub has only one Master. Sub cannot call other doms master as he is owned by his master. Others may approach sub with the permission of his master.
Collaring ceremony
The event of proceeding to the status of long-term BDSM relationship is celebrated during collaring ceremony. Participants may choose their own way to make this ceremony special and decide whether they want other people watch and take part in collaring or agree on a more private event.
The ceremony often resembles wedding ceremony with the same or even greater seriousness. Submissive will be led to his Master by a third person- usually a protector.
As a rule, partners have certain attributes, such as crop, leash and collar as the most expressive sign of shared commitment. Both will sign in a contract to record the event and state the responsibilities in the presence of witnesses and friends.
The ceremony may have many variations with lots of rituals involved-it‛s the matter of individual preferences, but one should remember that collaring is arranged as a big event to indicate its meaning. Ultimately, both partners should be undoubted about their bond.
